I figured it out. I figured it out earlier this year, but I've figured it out again, and so here it goes: Don't ask me to do things. And this can be anything from kissing to dishwasher-emptying. If I do it on my own, then that's fine, but don't frieking ask me. I can do it well enough by myself, no questions asked- I don't need you to remind, I'll get to it.

And the rest goes in the SB for saf(er) keeping.