I wrote stuff in the notebook by my bed for today, about the revelation I had last night continuing on into this morning. I love it when my sunconscious works out a problem that's been bugging me. And I can't wait to tell the two people who were most involved about it!!! I've jsut told one, and it was like... Great! Hopefully I can carry it through and not forget... Which is why I write it in here or my notebook, because when I look back, I remember and hopefully it'll stay a bit long then, and longer then next time, until it jsut... stays!

Anyway... The revelation was: Let go of the ways that I always thought of as "right" for friendship, and allow others to set the guidelines of what they need in a friend. How's that for a revelation? There were specifics, but meh... I can keep those quiet. *grin* Yay! proud!